IF YOU HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING TO OVERCOME AN AFFAIR for some time now with no progress and don’t know how to move forward, you need some direction- and not from your friends and family who encourage you leave now or stay at all costs. Good friends will support your decision, but guidance would be helpful.

Affair Repair is a known process. All healing is idiosyncratic, just as no two people survive cancer with the exact same course of treatment, there is path to healing. The book, Affair Repair documents the intertwined paths of the betrayed and the person involved in the affair through the phases of Normalcy, Discovery, Affair Post-traumatic Stress (PTS)/Disenfranchised Grief, Affair Repair, and Establishing Trust. The first part of the process is generally linear, you cannot Establish Trust until you managed the Affair PTS and addressed the Disenfranchised Grief of loosing the affair.

Generally, once trust is established, the couple can move on to making their marriage better. Sometimes couples will need to work on making changes in the relationship before one or both parties are willing to consider investing in full repair. Affair Repair will help you discern your relationship’s path to healing.