Affair Repair is a known process. It is possible to overcome.

You don’t have to divorce.

You don’t have to stay together either, but you might want to try to repair the hurt that has been done.

Affair Repair addresses the pain of both partners, the one who discovered the affair and the one who was caught.

Your and your partner’s paths to healing are separate but intertwined. Understanding and learning to integrate  what you both are going through can improve your journey to overcome.

The partner who was hurt by the affair needs safety and healing empathy for their pain. The partner who had the affair needs clarity on what they really want and hope things can be made right no matter the outcome. Both of you need knowledge and support to help you overcome pain, repair the wound, and transform the relationship.

Affair Repair is a six phase journey toward healing.

1. Normalcy
2. Discovery
3. Crisis
4. PTS/Disenfranchised Grief
5. Affair Repair
6. Establishing Trust

You and your partner travel together side-by-side on your own path through each phase. Knowing where you are on the road to recovery can guide your interactions. 

Each phase builds upon the other to heal the relationship wound and provide a foundation for moving forward. For example, you cannot Establish Trust until you can manage Affair PTS and have addressed the Disenfranchised Grief of losing the affair.

Generally, once trust is established, you can move on to making your relationship better. Sometimes couples will need to work on making changes in the relationship before one or both of you are willing to consider investing in full repair.

The book, Affair Repair, can help you along your healing journey. You will recognize the phase you are in, know what to do, and how to recognize you have moved forward.

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